👑 What is Queening?

The Art of Reigning in Your Power

African American woman walking into a closet of hats symbolizing the many roles women wear daily beneath their crowns.

👑 Queening Origins—The Art of Wearing Many Crowns

As women, we move through life adorned with an ever-changing collection of hats—each one representing a role, a calling, or a passion.
Some days, we wear our Mom hat—a crown of nurturing love, late-night wisdom, and unwavering strength (my personal favorite).
Other days, we show up in our Entrepreneur hat, our Crafting hat, our Wife hat, or our Problem-Solving hat
seamlessly transitioning between them, often within the same breath.

But no matter which hat we wear, every one of them fits perfectly beneath our crown—
a crown forged from wisdom, resilience, and an unshakable desire to create a life filled with beauty, purpose, and power.

Heavy is the head that wears the crown,
yet she wears it with grace.
She shows up.
She pours out love, strategy, care, creativity, and courage.
She builds. She nurtures. She reigns.

She Queens—day in, day out—because it’s simply who she is.

That, to me, is Queening.

It’s about embracing the real, the raw, the radiant magic we bring into the lives of those we love and the legacy we’re crafting as we rise.

It’s knowing that even when the world gets heavy, we do not shrink—we straighten our crowns, we take a breath, and we keep building.

This is Queening.
This is who we are.
This is what we do.
And Sis… we do it beautifully.


Illustration of various crowns surrounding a large question mark, representing the diverse definitions of queening and personal power.
So many crowns… which one speaks to your Queendom?

👑 What is Queening?

The Art of Reigning in Your Power

Hey Queen, now you know what I was thinking when I came up with the term Queening

I guess the definition of Queening depends on who you ask—but here in the Queendom, Queening is unapologetically crafting the life you want, one project, one dream, one act of courage at a time.

It’s a mindset.
It’s a movement.
It’s a whole lifestyle.

It’s time to define this crown-worthy philosophy and let it guide you in your creativity, your business, your healing, and your growth.


🎨 QUEENING IS CREATIVITY: The Power of Creation

To Queen is to create—with your hands, your heart, and your imagination.
It’s turning raw materials—whether it’s wax, paper, fabric, or a spark of an idea—into something bold, beautiful, and uniquely YOU.

Making candles, soaps, journals, body butters, or digital art? That’s Queening.
Turning your ideas into products, content, or a thriving business? That’s Queening.

It’s about embracing the boundless magic of creation without apology or limitation.
Here in this Queendom, there’s no box to fit into—just space to bloom, create, and reign freely.


💼 QUEENING IS ENTREPRENEURSHIP: Building Your Empire

Every Queenpreneur knows the grind, the vision, and the faith it takes to build an empire from scratch.
Entrepreneurship isn’t just about profits—it’s about purpose, power, and legacy.

Queening in business means:

  • Believing in your vision before anyone else does

  • Taking imperfect action

  • Learning from every “no” and turning it into a better “next time”

  • Creating impact that outlives a single post or product

Empires are built on dreams, Sis—and yours deserves the spotlight.


🫅🏾 QUEENING IS SISTERHOOD: Community Over Competition

Two African American women hugging and smiling, symbolizing sisterhood, healing, and emotional support within a creative Queendom.
In this Queendom, we rise together. Always.

One of the strongest pillars of this Queendom? Sisterhood.

Because DIY doesn’t mean do it alone.
We rise stronger when we rise together.

Here, we don’t compete—we collaborate.
We cheer each other on.
We share the glow.
We build with love.

In this space, your success is never a threat—it’s a celebration.
You’re not meant to shrink.
You’re meant to SHINE. ✨

And the Queendom? We’ve got your back. 💜


🌱 QUEENING IS SELF-GROWTH: Becoming Your Best Self

Every Queen’s journey is filled with chapters of evolution.

Some days it’s bossing up.
Other days, it’s taking a mental health day in your bonnet and favorite robe—and that’s Queening too.

We honor both.

Queening is about:

  • Giving yourself grace

  • Celebrating how far you’ve come

  • Knowing the crown never falls, it just tilts when life gets real

This journey is not about perfection—it’s about progression.
And as long as you keep showing up? You’re already Queening.


👑 WELCOME TO QUEENING WITH CHOCOLATESKYE

This Queendom was built on crafts, confidence, and community.
This Queendom isn’t just mine—it’s ours.

It’s a soft place to land, a bold space to grow, and a magical space to express yourself without judgment.
Whether you’re here to craft, to build a business, to find encouragement, or simply to connect with like-minded, powerful women—know that you belong here.

Know that your journey is seen, celebrated, and valued.

There is no mold to fit into, no limit to your growth, and no reason to dim your light.

You’re here to reign.
To rise.
To create.
To lead.
To LOVE.


🪖 So, What Is Queening?

  • ✨ It’s choosing yourself over and over again.

  • ✨ It’s crafting your own rules and your own freedom.

  • ✨ It’s standing tall in your truth and building a life that fits you.

And best believe… you’re doing it beautifully.

So, adjust your crown Queen.
We’re just getting started.

And trust me…
The Queendom awaits. 👑✨

👑 Stay Connected, Queen!

If this post spoke to your soul, don’t let the conversation end here.

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Let’s grow, create, and reign together.
The Queendom is waiting. 💜👑

💜 Meet the Queen

"ChocolateSkye - Beautiful black woman, soft glam look, founder of Queening with ChocolateSkye blog"

Hey! 👑 I’m ChocolateSkye, the Queenpreneur of this Queendom- Im a creator, mentor, and mom who believes in the power of sisterhood and self-expression. This is your royal court for self-care, DIY magic, business savvy, and personal growth. Together, we’ll rise, reign, and build. Welcome!

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Start where you are, use what you have, and keep showing up—even if your crown is tilted. 🦋✨

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